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How to Get What We Want

Diagram

Ask ---- Negotiate ---- Compromise

And if that doesn't work (see diagram at right)

Persecute ---- Rescue ---- Or Play Victim

If I can't ask/negotiate/compromise, then if I persecute (get mad enough), or if I rescue (get extra nice), or if I play the victim (pout, leave, get sick), then I may get what I want!

So, to get off the triangle, ASK.

And remember, if you win the argument, it just means you're married to a loser! That's nothing to brag about!

- Bill Rucker

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